Thursday, February 15, 2018

Thoughts and Prayers No More

18 school shootings in the first 45 days of 2018. 11 Police Officers killed in the past week. These tragic events  are more than just numbers and statistics.  They are the stained and torn fabric of our country. Images of children being forced from schools to safety with hands in the air are becoming the iconic images that define us as a country.

Within hours political leaders are quick to offer “our thoughts and prayers” as if to provide sympathy or comfort to those who must now deal with the nightmare of the tragic death of a loved one.  It’s meaning has become hallow and worthless

When someone says my thoughts are with you, what meaning is there behind those words, how can we even imagine what that person is going through, how their life has been changed, what emotions are tearing at their very being. It’s one thing to offer our thoughts to a relative or friend but when a political leader utters the same phrase, where does the meaning come from behind the words?

But when someone also offers prayers it’s even more personal. For me prayers are private, personal thoughts and concerns between me and God. How then do the prayers of someone else reach out to those we pray for?  How does something that is so personal carry meaning when offered by someone these people have never met.

But more than offering thoughts and prayers it’s time for those who have been elected to serve our country, defend our constitution and protect our freedoms, to finally put meaning behind their thoughts for victims and families. Only they have the power to bring life to their words by finally realizing why they chose to serve this country.

Too often they are referred to as Politicians instead of the elected official sworn to uphold the rights and freedoms of American Citizens. They let politics be their excuse for the inability to create needed change. They were not elected to deliver their thoughts and prayers, we gave them the power to enact change that will allow us to go about normal lives and no longer live in fear of our fellow citizens.

If we can no longer feel safe dropping off our kids at school, going to a movie or attending an outdoor music festival, what good are these rights and freedoms? No longer can we hold accountable just the deranged shooter but it’s time that  those who have the ability to actually make the changes to give back the freedoms we cherish to take the blame and be held accountable as well.

You Mr President, Justices of the Supreme Court, Senators and Representatives now have the blood of the innocent victims on your hands and it cannot be washed away through thoughts and prayers. Only your actions can bring changes that will allow your constituents to enjoy the freedom to go about normal lives. Until then fear is the new normal.

 We always hold high the courage of first responders’ and the job they do even though this is what they are trained to do and the profession they chose. I am grateful for these brave people, but my thoughts and prayers would be they never have to experience for real what they are trained to do. But on a cold Saturday morning in Westerville, OH, the unimaginable happened and 2 loved and respected police officers, husbands and fathers lost their lives to yet another shooting by a man who illegally purchased the weapon used to gun down these heroes.

We also praise the efforts of everyday Americans as we open our hearts and wallets searching for ways to help the victims of events that we wish never happened. My thoughts and prayers would be that instead of defining ourselves as those who come together when needed, we are those who come together to celebrate the peace and love we have for each other.

I was recently  astounded to hear a group of young people ages of 25 to 40 sharing what they had in their “bug out bags” and what they felt they needed to survive should our country be devastated by something other than natural disasters. These are the people who will be the next to bring about change and define our country and instead of talking about hope and dreams, they were discussing fear and selfishness.


No longer are thoughts and prayers enough, it’s time for action that finally brings change. Not to sound like a 60’s flower child but my hope and dream is we no longer ask or deliver thoughts and prayers but instead we live our lives in peace and with love of one another.   

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